If The Punks Are United (Indonesian Edition)

I didn’t grow up a punk rock kid. I’m an old man now, and some of what I listen to (and most of the music I write) is punk rock music, but I didn’t gravitate to punk until later than most. I blame our former neighbor a few doors down. As a kid, I knew she and her friends were punks, and what I saw of them turned me off the punk scene. They were just obnoxious idiots who liked to take drugs, drink, and puke everywhere. I saw nothing in them that inspired anything but revulsion from me, and when I got older and some of my friends got into punk rock, I heard bands like the Dayglo Abortions and thought that punk rock was just dick and fart jokes. Weirdly, I leaned more towards rap music. Yeah, I was that kid. I felt that rap music had an attitude of rebellion and questioning society, and even though it almost exclusively spoke to an existence I knew nothing about, I liked it. I was a teenager, and disgust at the system is a pretty common theme. I found it through rap.

But along the way I did find punk rock, and I’m glad I did. I don’t like much of what the current culture deems punk rock. Most of it is rather uninspired pop music, and much of what isn’t really doesn’t seem like it’s doing anything more than trying to sound like the bands that inspired it. There are plenty of exceptions, and that keeps my dance card full going to various punk shows, booking bands, and the like.

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Dialogue – How We Deal With Drugs

To start things off, let me say for the record that I am a highly irregular drug user. I have smoked marijuana on several occasions and no doubt will again, but the mood really has to take me. For a brief period I smoked more regularly as a means to fall asleep on sleepless nights, but I don’t like the idea of relying on anything ever, so I chose to quit doing that and once again handle my insomnia the way I always have. When I do smoke, it generally takes the form of a couple of hoots and I’m good for six months. The last time I was really stoned was years ago, and after only about half a joint I was unable to follow America’s Next Top Model, so I knew that I was really not good at smoking weed and should just stop doing it except when the mood really takes me.

Fortunately, I live in Canada. This is a free country with less terrifying drug policies than some other countries. In the US, there’s a war on, and it reminds me of the Vietnam war. There are loads of casualties and lives totally destroyed on both sides, and it hasn’t ebbed the flow of Communism at all. My only hope is that, unlike most American war efforts, they realize that their current approach makes this an unwinnable war, and they either give up or change their tactics.

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Bad Logic

Yesterday, a friend of mine had a Facebook status update that I wanted to comment on. This is not meant as me snarking at her, this is instead meant as a means to hopefully remind my readers about the importance of critical thinking even when it comes to random Facebook crap. The quotation said something along the lines of:

In Canada the homeless go without eating
In Canada, the elderly go without needed medicines
In Canada, the mentally ill go without treatment
In Canada, the military go without property equipment
In Canada, veterans go without benefits they were promised
Yet we donate billions to other countries without helping our own first.

We’ve all seen things like this or heard comments about how we spend billions of dollars on other countries while letting our own people suffer. It’s a frustrating sentiment and one that is easily spread to people, but the idea is foolish.

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Cover Your Face In Public, Woman

No, I’m not on about Islam. I was just enjoying my morning Pharyngulations when I spotted this piece which led to this article about the dress code at Harrods. Now, I have trouble with dress codes. For the past year I have been following my primary client’s business casual dress code, but for the nine previous years with that client, I flouted that particular rule. I do not believe that appearance matters for anyone working within a company. Obviously, those who have outwardly facing roles are actually representing the corporation, but when I am sitting in my cubicle all day, why would it matter if I wear jeans or an Armani?

As PZ points out, Harrods rules on makeup apply to women. That is, by definition, sexist. As is the tirade by Liz Jones of the Daily Mail (both articles link to it, but I’ll link too just in case). Liz Jones explains that her comments about women aren’t sexist because she wouldn’t buy anything from an unshaven man either, but she’s wrong and daft. If anything, she should expect men to either wear makeup or remain unshaved to cover up their own disgusting skin.

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A Ruler To Dawkins’ Knuckles

I have a huge amount of respect for Richard Dawkins, so I’m going to hope that his comments towards Rebecca Watson from Skeptchick over her recent comments to the atheist community were a mistake on his part. In case you are wondering, this all stemmed from a video that Rebecca made about how she had been propositioned in an elevator by a fellow skeptic. Her comments were anything but offensive. Basically, she was saying to skeptical males everywhere that this is the wrong place and time, and that for a woman by herself in a foreign city late at night, it’s a little scary.

Dawkins response was to craft a fake letter (I believe this happened on Pharyngula) to “Muslima” telling her that it was unfortunate that she had her genitals mutilated and all, but look at what the poor women in the West have to deal with… men asking them if they want some coffee! ZOMG!

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Culpability And Brain Chemistry

Imagine that there was a guy who had always been a good person. Then one day he started having these really overwhelming violent impulses. He fought them down as best he could, but eventually they overpowered him, and for no reason he could understand, he was compelled to do horrible things. It didn’t make any sense to him, and he felt more like a passenger in his own head than the person who was in control of his actions. What do you do with someone like that?

My own immediate reaction is that you try to help them, but first and foremost you put them in an environment where they cannot hurt others. It’s similar to the idea of quarantining someone who has a dangerous disease. An actual quarantine is a horrible experience, but if that stops Ebola Zaire from spreading throughout the city then that is just what makes sense. And for the record, the person I just described was Charles Whitman, the tower sniper who killed 15 people (plus one unborn child) and wounded 32.

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Comfy In My Own Skin

I go by the nickname Big Ugly Jim. There’s a story behind that. It involves two little barbie girls. It matters not, though. Suffice to say that it has been my nickname for a very long time. I don’t consider myself ugly, and I’m not that big, but it works. When people say Big Ugly Jim, they know they’re talking about me. Or possibly that guy from Faith No More.

The thing is, I’m comfy with who I am. That isn’t to say that I don’t feel the need to make alterations. I’m getting some more tattoo work shortly and still have a few pounds to shed, but at the end of the day I like how I look, who I am, and what I do. But then, I’ve never been too hung up on appearances.

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My Grandfather’s Suicide

When I was about 10, my grandfather killed himself. He was a fantastic person, a rag time musician who was always the life of the party and who raised his family well. He was thirteen years older than my grandmother and completely caught off guard when she died two years before him of lung cancer. After her death, he was diagnosed both with emphysema and skin cancer, but that yucky kind of skin cancer that you will kill you dead. He was constantly exhausted, alone, in a giant amount of pain, and his clock was ticking.

My dad made arrangements for him to come live with us for his last few days. We moved my sister into the basement and set up her old room as a really nice environment for him to live his last in the home of people who could look after him, would love him, and would be there at the end. But he was a very proud man, and the idea of relying on anyone, of being a burden to his children… Well, these were really just too embarrassing for him. He chose to go out to his garage, sit in the car, turn on the engine, and fall asleep.

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Miss USA Evolves (or Evo Diva)

I’m surprised that they asked such a difficult question to the Miss USA pageant members, but ask they did: Should evolution be taught in schools. And the answers were interesting, as was the end result. One of the women who said that it should be taught, Alyssa Campanella, went on to win the pageant.

Now, I’m obviously pro-evolution. I think not teaching it in schools is a laughable mistake because it is an important concept to understand for anyone who wants to understand the world. If those people choose to dismiss it or water it down with intelligent design dogma, that is entirely up to them to do. But not teaching it in schools?

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Geeky Honkies

I grew up nerdy. I tried (poorly) to be a computer geek with my Commodore 64 that I had lovingly named Cedrick, though until I got older the reality was I was simply typing in the program listings from Compute’s Gazette magazine and lacked the ability to figure out where I had gone wrong. I played Dungeons and Dragons and a variety of other role playing games, including an incredibly fun game my friend Andrew had created based on the world of professional wrestling. I spent far too much time in arcades. And I was a social pariah.

In junior high, I wound up in a school full of people who didn’t like me. I didn’t really know why, but that’s how it was. Fortunately, I met and befriend Wes and Troy early on, and they became my nerdy friends. As time went by, our circle grew and we were joined by other social pariahs. There were kids in our group of friends we didn’t even really like, but they were part of our group and we accepted them. It was a very inclusive group.

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